Friday, September 11, 2020

September 11, 2020

 It has been 19 years since we were attacked by Muslim extremists.  They wanted to bring us to our knees.  Instead  as Adm. Isoroku Yamamoto said after the attack on Pearl Harbor " I fear all we have done is to awaken a sleeping giant and fill him with a terrible resolve."  We were united, Americans all.  All races, religions, sexes for a time nothing else mattered except our love for the United States.   Our country currently is in turmoil with an increase in domestic terror groups.  Attacks on police officers are at an all time high.  I want these horrible angry people to remember that on that day police officers and firemen ran into those towers to rescue as many people as they could.  They didn't differentiate between black, white, gay, straight, Muslim or Christian.  THEY GAVE THEIR LIVES FOR EVERYONE IN THOSE BUILDINGS. I wonder if ANTIFA or BLM had been active back then if they would have run in to save their sisters and brothers.  I would  bet not.  I wonder if any of those rescued have produced 19 year olds who are rioting and screaming for the death of police officers.  


We have a generation of people who have no investment in the memories of that awful day.  When we say "Never Forget" I bet that many have no clue the agony of that day, the tears shed for people we did not know.  They won't understand  the feeling of pride hearing the recording of Todd Beamer on United Airlines Flight 93 telling his fellow passengers to "lets roll!!" as they took over the flight  so that it would not crash into another building.  They knew that they were going to die.  They are all Heroes. 

Teach your children and grandchildren what happened on that day. That day when we all came together. 


Thursday, September 10, 2020

Koray. Turkish for Amber Moon.

 Today I lost my sweet girl Koray.  She died in the arms of the techs at Copper Crown Clinic.  They tried to save her but she was too sick.  I cannot say enough wonderful things about Dr. Corley and Dr. Ashlyn(Guillot) and the staff.  The love that they gave my big girl was palpable.  I will forever be grateful that she died with friends and they were there to send her across the Rainbow Bridge,  For those few who don't know her let me introduce you to her. 

I first became aware of Anatolian Shepherds when a face book friend,  Paula Dempsey got a female and named her  Melania.    I became a daily visitor to her site just to see new pictures.  I was fascinated with the breed.  I had never even heard of them prior to Paula.  I frequently looked up sites to see pictures of puppies and adults.  I had my own dogs and really could not add another to the brood.  After I lost Milo I contacted Paula and she directed me to Debi Grunnah.  I called some time ago and we talked and I told her that while I was not ready to have a new dog that it was my goal to make my next an Anatolian.  I didn't care the sex or the age.  I just knew that I wanted one of those beautiful dogs.  She told me that I would need a big enough space for the dog to exercise and it needed to be fenced.  I tucked away that information working towards that goal.  Stan died May of 2019 and I remember a few months later sending her a video of my backyard questioning if it was big enough.  I had the fence put in in October and let her know that I was ready.  I believed that I would get the dog made just for me.  She called me about an older female that had been  loved for 8 years by her owner who had suddenly died and the spouse was being placed in a retirement center and could not take her. I remember asking her if I needed to get a goat or a sheep so that she  would have something to do.  Debi assured me she just needed love and attention.    I planned to meet her the end of December after our trip to Disney World.  On December 31 I met her.  I was smitten.  She was from Canada  bred by Correna Kelly.  She was sent to her new home as a puppy.  I was her second owner.  She was obviously well loved and socialized.  Debi Grunnah sent me home with leashes, food, information and warned me about their sensitivity to medications and to be very careful.  I pestered Debi a lot. When I was at the vets for shots and her first exam.  I called to make sure she was getting the right things,  I know I probably frustrated Dr. Ashlyn, a lot.  But she put up with me.  Koray settled in to my home and put up with Peanut and all my grandkids.  My visitors all loved her.  Desiree Fairley said that Koray reminded her of a plush animal.  Rebekah called her Eeyore.  She would go in the back yard with the grandkids and play.  She did not look or act her age.  She was mindful of the fence and if someone passed the outside of the fence she placed herself between the fence and the kids.  Cookie the big German Shepard that lives across the street became her fence friend with her owner Maria.  Oh my God did Koray love Maria.  She would be almost as ecstatic at seeing the grandkids as she was Maria.  Maria was truly her favorite.    We talked about letting Cookie and Koray  play in the fence together but never got around to doing so and now it's too late.  

Koray was an affable dog who went from plush toy to guard dog in seconds.  Nothing escaped her eyes and ears.  She made me feel safe.  She was so quirky in her ways.  She would sit in front of me and bark, and bark again.  She either wanted out or food.  When Peanut would get in Koray's bed Koray would walk over and just stare at her.  She never growled or do anything except stare at her.  Peanut would eventually get up.  This was repeated at least once a day.  Yesterday I found Peanut laying beside Koray's bed.  I  cried.  The hair.  Oh my goodness the HAIR.  I needed to sweep at least once a day if not more.  Since she has been in the hospital I had not swept.  I came home today and turned on the sweeper.  I got half way thru and was crying so hard I had to quit.  I feel like I am getting rid of her.

Peanut was the one who alerted me to Koray's distress.  I had, 24 hours prior,  the end of the house treated with Delta Dust by the exterminator.  I was assured that it was safe and indeed I looked it up and it was safe for pets.  Koray developed an allergic reaction and had collapsed at the bottom of the steps at 8pm Friday night.  Peanut went nuts barking at the door and when I opened it up she would not come in and looked to her right and kept barking.  I found her and was able to get her in but she was ataxic and her respiratory rate was over 100.  I called my friend Kay McGuire, DVM and she told me to get her to the emergency center immediately.  Michael and Maria Felton came over and carried her to the car because she could not walk.  She was not treated for an allergic reaction for the first 2 days and eventually by the time my own Vet opened up was in DIC.  Dr. Corley wanted to send her to the emergency clinic in Mandeville, La.  I knew the probable outcome and I so trust Dr.s Corley and Ashlyn that I declined and wanted her home so that I could see her.  She was doing better, her swelling was down and she ate some pumpkin and yogurt last night and was responsive.  I was planning on bringing Peanut by today or tomorrow to visit.   I am having her cremated and will take her to Becky's farm and plant a tree.  

I know that her previous owner who loved her for 8 years before me is enjoying a reunion with her beloved Koray.  I just hope when its my time she will  to come to me for a pat. 

My life was so much richer with Koray.  She was my great gift and I was honored to be her human for the last 9 months.  I wanted more time.  God speed Koray you are forever in my heart.  

Thursday, August 13, 2020

And So It Starts and Saving America and Mail In Ballots

 Yesterday Joe Biden announced his running mate as  Kamala Harris(D-Calif.). Representatives from India and Jamaica have expressed their delight that an American descendant of both those countries could possibly be a heart beat away from the presidency.  Her mother is deceased and her father Professor Emeritus professor Donald Harris has not thus far commented.    I find that curious and  I wait to read or hear his response to her candidacy. One thing is perfectly clear.  If Joe Biden is elected she WILL be President.  My guess is that he won't last  the first year.  He cannot voice a consistent thought without it being written down. He gets sidetracked easily and can't remember where he was.  On face book a meme asked "has someone told Joe  his running mate is Kamala?  On that thought, don't look at Joe for policy.  He barely can remember his own name.  Policy will be formed by Kamala and her ilk. The Green New Deal, medicare for all,  expanded funding for abortion with late date abortions allowed, increased taxes, encouragement for illegal immigration with guaranteeing health care and government benefits are just a few "goodies" we can expect and those that work will pay.  On abortion the only democratic candidate that qualified her abortion stance was Tulsi Gabbard who stated that abortion should be safe, legal, and rare" She also stated that she would prohibit abortion during the last three months of pregnancy.   Not a SINGLE other candidate including Biden agreed with her stance. This is telling because while he hasn't said it is okay  for late term abortions or partial birth abortions  he has not come out against the idea  leaving  the door open.     The progressives  are treating abortion as something that is good for society Biden himself  a Catholic has been denied communion at several churches because of his stance.  

Under Trump (until Covid) we have enjoyed unprecedented growth and development in  the country.  Businesses have returned to our country and are now American Made.  We have gotten out of disastrous trade agreements and have entered into newer and better ones.  Black unemployment reached an all time low of 5.4 percent.  New businesses started unencumbered by the red tape from years before. This will all revert back if Biden is elected.  

There is a huge stand for mail in ballots. Mail in ballots are gifts to those who want to commit fraud  quite frankly in both parties.  Mail in ballots can be stolen, forged and "lost ".  We cannot go to a totally mail in election because the rolls are often out of date and are mailed to dead people.  Personally despite multiple attempts at getting Stan's name off the voting rolls he is still there.  If we had unchecked mailed out ballots then Stan would get one.  He would vote for Trump he hated Biden. Ballots meant for someone else could be illegally taken and a vote turned in.  Liberals are behind this process 100%  and are using the Corona virus as ammunition. Our schools are opening, we are social distancing, and I think everyone carries hand sanitizer.  There is no reason we cannot go to the polls and vote except that there is a real concern on the Democratic side that Biden will lose.  

I also predict that if Biden wins.  Shut downs will be  completely over.  Just a thought

I have made every election since COVID19 and it has been done well.  I WILL vote for Trump at the polls.  


The True National Emergency has Nothing To Do With Race

 When I lived in Texas I worked for Humana Hospital as their Emergency Department Manager.  I loved my job and the support I received from the hospital for my child abuse/molestation education project.  I gave lectures to children and adults about identifying child abuse/molestation victims and how we can protect our greatest resource, our children.   I stopped lecturing when I moved to Louisiana but the subject was never far from my mind.  

We are taken over by the news of all the rioting in the country.  We are being led like sheep by the left leaning media and the true emergency is being buried.  Quoted from the site of National Center for Missing and Exploited Children  in the last 36 years they have received more than 5 MILLION calls  for missing children. They state that of the nearly 26,300 runaways reported to NCMEC in 2019 that 1 in 6 were likely victims of child sex trafficking.  That's approximately 4,383 children that are being trafficked last year alone. World wide the numbers a staggering.  Of the few countries that report here are the numbers provided by globalmissingkids.org  Yearly this numbers are listed by country that report 

  • Australia 20,000
  • Canada    45,288
  • Germany  100,000
  • India         96,000
  • Jamaica     1984
  • Russia       45,000
  • Spain         20,000
  • United Kingdom   112,853
  • United States  460,000   
That's an estimated total of 901,125 children that vanish. It is estimated that human trafficking is a 150 billion dollar a year business with a billion of that from sexual exploitation.  dosomething.org reports indicate that a "large number of child sex trafficking survivors in the US were at one time in the foster system.  They also stated that the National Human Trafficking Hotline( 1-888-373-7888) received more calls from California than any other state in the US followed by Texas and Florida.  Who reading this realized the extent of these numbers?  I wonder if  you care?

We are all aware of who Jeffery Epstein was.  He was a pedophile  who was convicted in 2008 for solicitation of an underage girl.  He only served 13 months.  He owned a private island in the Virgin Islands from 1998 to 2019.  Locally the island was known as  the Island of Sin and Pedophile Island. Bill Clinton was a frequent visitor as well as Andrew, Duke of York.  Les Wexner the Victoria Secret Founder, was a frequent visitor.     Jeffery had a mansion in New York that hosted many of the rich and famous including Clinton, the Duke, and the Saudi crown prince Mohammed bin Salman. After his conviction Bill Gates met with him several times to obtain money for Global Health. Jeffery had a private plane dubbed the Loita Express.  Clinton was on it thru 26 trips.  Clinton, Kevin Spacey, and Chris Tucker went on the plane to visit Africa touring HIV/AIDS project sites in 2002. You will recall that Spacey was accused of making unwanted advances to underage boys.   Jeffery Epstein made a statement to James B. Stewart from the NYT  that he knew "an astonishing number of rich, famous and powerful people and had the photos to prove it. He claimed to know embarrassing information about their sexual proclivities and.. drug use"  .  His past caught up with him and his final arrest was  July 6, 2019.  He "committed suicide" August 10, 2019 while in jail.  Anyone who believes that he killed himself is delusional.  He knew too much and was likely to plea bargain with his little black book.  His "girlfriend" Ghislaine Maxwell has recently been arrested  for recruiting and training girls for her boyfriend and his powerful friends.  The whole thing reads like a horror story.  People KNEW what was happening to all those girls.  I hope they lay awake at night with the knowledge that they could have done something.  I will be curious to see if Ghislaine makes it to court because she knows where the proverbial skeletons are buried. .  

You all remember Harvey Weinstein?  He was convicted of rape, found guilty and likely will die in prison.  Over   eighty woman came out against him.  Many Hollywood elites came forward.  Fame is a powerful aphrodisiac.  These woman permitted his advances because of his power in the film industry.  Since then many actors have been accused of inappropriate sexual advances.  Women were up in arms #MeToo was viral. Parents of child actors delivered up their children like Thanksgiving turkeys to these corrupt agents and film makers.  Those children were out of their league and many have come out as adults to expose what happened to them.  They didn't disappear their faces were too well known.  I still cannot listen to anything by Michael Jackson. That people find it "normal" that he had young boys visit with him and sleep in his bed is abhorrent.  They got to play with all of his toys and got great presents.  What kind of a mother thinks that is okay? Sorry/not sorry that he is dead.  I pray for his victims.  

 But what about the average children , our children and grandchildren, those without desire for fame.  What about the ones who because of their age and sex are sought after by certain men and women who feel that sex with children is normal and desired. There are groups that want to make sex with children legal.  The North American Man Boy Love Association (NAMBLA) works to abolish  age of consent laws. They are still active today.  

A billion dollars a year make child sex trafficking worth the risk to many.  What is being done? The internet is like a gold mine for child sex traffickers.  The need to police what are children are looking at and taking part in is critical.  The internet provides a worldwide marketing  channel for the sale of not only children, but child pornography.  

We need to train our babies how to be safe, we need to prosecute with life time penalties for human traffickers' and stop any public support to those that want the age of consent lowered.  We need strict ENFORCED laws against the internet being used for the purpose of selling children. Finally any convicted pedophile should face the death penalty.  After all they have murdered the innocence of our children for a sexual need they say is normal.

Above all we need ALL parents to say enough is enough and raise our voices because  our children can't.

Parents and grandparents can no longer ignore what is happening and talk to our children. They need to educate themselves to identify the signs of abuse.  They may not be able to prevent the  first attack but they can the second. Parents need to have total control and oversight over their children's internet use despite trusting their kids.  This is a war.  

Monday, August 10, 2020

The Spring and Summer of 2020 and I want a do over. I am who I am so get over it

I have been struggling to write for the past few months.  There is so much going on in our personal lives and in the country that it is mind boggling to even begin to sit down and compose coherent sentences.  Every day brings something new that has me shaking my head at the idiocy of our fellow Americans and leaves me wondering when it will stop.  When will the FEW stop being able to dictate to the majority. 

We are still semi quarantined due to CV19.  Masks are good, masks are bad.  Groups are bad UNLESS you are taking part in a demonstration.  Proms were called off, graduations changed, and church participation had to be limited.  Our families were buried without gathering, weddings were changed or called off because of state ordered limits to attendance.  We couldn't get our hair done, our mani-pedi appointments had to be cancelled until the last month and our eyelash extensions had to be delayed.  I realize the last examples are strictly vanity items but I am telling you  women were so pissed off that they were getting boot leg beauty treatments.  Our states were closing down businesses that they deemed as non essential and causing devastating losses.   Some may never recover. 

 It is difficult not to believe that especially in the democratically controlled states that this is designed to  keep the job loss at a maximum especially before this very important presidential election. The Russia Collusion effort failed and has proven to be a manufactured event to unseat our President, the impeachment trial was a bust as well, then Covid 19, a real manufactured virus from China hit our shores mid January.  The White House put up travel restrictions the end of the month for those from China unless Americans and then they had to quarantine. Around the same time Nancy Pelosi, (D-Ca) was encouraging people to attend the Chinese New Year Celebrations. The mayor of New Orleans made the statement that if told to do so she would have canceled Mardi Gras on Feb 25.  Easy to say in hindsight and I would bet good money that had Trump called her and told her to cancel the events and parades Mayor Cantrell would have told him to kiss her butt. Mardi Gras brings in around 1 BILLION dollars.  The first CV19 illness took place 2 weeks after that.  Unless she lives under a rock and never watches the news there is no reason that she could not have reasoned out that there is a virus out there in the world that has come to the United States late January and that having over a million people descend on her town from all over the world wasn't a good idea.  She didn't want to take the heat for the economic liability and wanted someone to blame.

Corona is here to stay.  I have lost friends to the virus.  I know its real and deadly but I also know that we have to go back to work and save our economy.  We have to use common sense and protection but we need to work.  They promise a vaccine  on the horizon but I for one will not take it.  At least for  a year or so.  I want to see the long range outcomes. Like the flu vaccine it will not prevent it but will lesson the course.   The President came out touting hydroxychloroquine as a treatment.  He was shot down faster than a mallard during duck season.  It is not a cure but in many cases elevates the symptoms combined with a cocktail of  Zithromax, Vit C, D and Zinc.  The 'experts' came out of the woodwork poopooing all the claims.  As Leonard Ravenhill wrote "A man with an experience (of God) is never at the mercy of a man with an argument. I know many doctors (thank God) that state that it works and are giving it to their clients with consistently positive results. I have read multiple papers that discuss the positive outcome for Corona viruses and SARS using hydroxychloroquine.   Thank you President Trump for bringing our attention to this medication it IS saving lives.  Different states are in different levels of 'opening up' Schools are slowly reopening with modifications. Is there going to be an increase of the virus? Yes but they still need to go back.  Children need interaction with their peers.  And after months of homeschooling believe me they need their teachers.  

May 25 George Floyd  was killed during an arrest in Minneapolis.  There is no one white or black that wasn't horrified  by the circumstances. Yes he was a criminal under the influence BUT he did not deserve to die.   It touched off violent protests in major cities that have caused millions and millions in property damage and loss of businesses.  BLM and ANTIFA were out in force and looting was at an all high.  I saw a meme that summed it up. It showed people carrying out TVs and Shoes from a store all the while with smiles on their faces.... the meme said nothing expresses grief like a large screen TV and Nikes. I know that some protests were peaceful but they were hijacked by criminals.  The message was lost while the nation watched in horror at the destruction that continues today.  I personally want it stopped by ANY means.  Looters, any color or nationality, should be shot on sight. That would put an end to wanton destruction.  Portland is still having riots and property destruction.  In Seattle the beginning the Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone was founded by a loosely organized group of protestors with the main vision of defunding and removing the police.  It was to be a police free  utopia that was shut down because of violence.  In less than a month they had 2 gun related homicides and several more additional shooting.  All across the country are calls for defunding the police.  I am stocking up on guns and ammo.  Just in case. Just for the record I support our men in BLUE. 

The posts on Face Book encourage me to believe that I am racist because I believe that all lives matter. I do not value a black life over a white, brown or yellow life,  I was taught by example by my mother that color of skin is not how you judge a person. You judge them by what is inside of their hearts and their outward actions .In a later post I will write about my 7th birthday and the lesson in race that my mom taught me.    I owe NO  financial  reparations  for something that happened to no one that is currently alive.  Further more I had no one in my family that owned slaves. I understand the concept of white privilege, I really do. In elementary school we read the book "Black Like Me" by John Howard Griffin. It opened my eyes to the South but I lived in the North and apparently was clueless.   I grew up poor in Columbus.  We had enough food and a roof over our heads.  Some of my black friends in high school were better off but I never was envious.....that is just how it was.  I lost an advancement at Ohio State to a friend of mine.  Our grade points were equal but he was black. He told me that was the reason.   I really think that was the first time I realized that we were being judged by the color of our skin and it honestly bothered me, not because I thought I was better but that 'someone' chose him because of his skin color . Now I realize some of the difficulties he must have faced because of his skin color.   I however, took my licks and changed my focus.  We were still friends and I honestly was glad for him.  Moving on to today we have tee-shirts, hats, and posters that proclaim Black Lives Matter.   The movement started in 2013 after the death of Trevon Martin. It was basically a decentralized organization that has gained ground in recent years.  Currently 100 million has been pledged to the group in addition to the 33 Million in grants from George Soros.  Many are now questioning what is being done with the money to help the black community.  There have been no definite answers.  One of the co founders Patrisse Cullors is a Marxist who mentored under Eric Mann(SDS & Weather  Underground  domestic  terror organization).  In a video she proclaims that she and other co founder Alicia Garza are trained Marxists.   I have no illusions about this organization at all and will not give a dime of my money for their support.  What is hysterical is that Planned Parenthood is verbally s supporting BLM.  Its about time that they supported and got behind the black population considering the  Planned parenthood founder Margaret Sanger's belief that they needed to control the black population.  It was founded to kill those in society deem unfit to live not just blacks.  

Moving on to ANTIFA( short for antifascist)who often use violence to get their point across. When ever they attend a protest, violence will happen.  Allegedly they are against the far right ideology and frequently quote what happened in Germany during Hitler's time as something they need to prevent..... by using the same tactics and violence that Hitler's followers did.  Doesn't make sense to me.  They are ideologically against and have physically  come out against conservative speakers thus preventing free speech.  Sounds like fascism  to me.  Cancel culture refers to "the popular practice of withdrawing support for {canceling} public figures and companies after they have done or said something considered objectionable or offensive", Who makes that decision? Who has the right to choose what I want to hear or believe and cancel out those things  they deem inappropriate... who is the 'whoever' that wants to make those decisions for me. If you don't go along you are labeled a racist, homophobe, xenophobe, sexist and misogynist to name a few of the tags.  Man, no one wants to be called one of those names.... people look at you funny.  It doesn't matter if it's not true, the act of calling a person that leaves a stain.  I am frankly so very glad that I have reached an age that I don't give a shit.  The people that know me know what I believe and stand for in my life. But this tactic cows even the strongest persons.  I have watched it time and time again.   The few control the majority by violence in action and in speech  During this summer of violence  we have seen statues toppled buildings defaced and police murdered.  I remember one time I told one of my relatives that Obama was starting a war on police. I was told that there was no war on police.  I was right and that is one discussion I wish I hadn't won.

Any person in history that had ANYTHING to do with slaves is condemned.   Names of buildings, schools and memorials have been  vandalized  with some notable exceptions.  New York is still New York and that city's namesake was a prolific slave trader, Yale is still Yale even though its namesake was a slave trader.  Harvard, Princeton \, Columbia, Yale and the University of Virginia were built on the backs of slaves.  Slaves served faculty and students and yet they still stand.     You cannot change or erase history to do so brings great peril.  It is what it was.  Because of the lessons learned throughout the  years we have struggled to become better people.  George Santayana said "Those that cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it"

The most common complaint I have heard during the shut down and quarantine is the inequality.  10,000 people attended George Floyd's funeral visitation that was open for six hours.  Everywhere else you could only gather in groups of 10 or less.. Mayor Lightfoot of Chicago closed down salons but got her hair done " because she is the face of the city ".  I really could be unkind here but I will resist.    It's okay to protest and riot but not go to church. I  could go on and on. People are pissed because of the mask  its "for our own good" but not everyone has to wear one.     The mask is here to stay at least for a long long while. It does have advantages like I can crinkle up my eyes like I am smiling but still stick my tongue out.  Juvenile right??  It still hasn't stopped me from practicing in front of a mirror.



I haven't even touched on the liberal socialization of our wonderful country but that is for another day.  I probably have offended many people by this post, tough.  Get a thicker skin. 

Saturday, April 11, 2020

Easter and the Empty Tomb

Never in my lifetime have I experienced an Easter holiday like this year.  For sixty eight years I have had the opportunity to go to church, bask in the music, and listen to the message about my risen Savior.  This year in many states you can get arrested  if you gather in a house of God, synogogue, or mosque.  A weapon was unleashed in China that has nearly crippled our country.  We have quarantine orders that forbid gatherings of more than 6, some states have closed their borders, businesses are closed or operating in a totally different manner causing financial hardship for many employees.  Hospitals are at capacity and heath care workers are putting their lives on the line to care for the sick.  COVID19 has changed the way we socialize, shop, work and gather together.  People are financially devastated and expecting to be taken care of by the government. And still there are those who continue to flaunt the rules and take a chance getting ill or worse yet passing this virus to someone else. Those that care are staying in place especially if they are still working.  My daughters in-laws, Pop pop and Gigi have not seen Winston, Patton, and Aster since this began as they have the care of their elderly father. .  My hear hurts for them as I know what the ache of not seeing your grandchildren feels like.   I do not know when this virus passes, and it will, what changes it will leave in it's wake.  Will we no longer greet people with a kiss, hug, or even a handshake?  I hope not I have more faith in our resilence, it may take time but I believe that we will bounce back.  I look forward to greeting people with a hug. 

Timothy Cardinal Dolan  Archbishop of New York gave an anology that resonated with me.  In talking about the empty churches he stated that" before we can be full we got to be empty.  The essence of Easter Sunday morning was what? The empty tomb.  The broken, dead body of Jesus was not there .  He had risen from the dead".  The tomb was empty Jesus had risen from the dead. For those that believe ,his crucifiction and resurection have given us the path to everlasting life.   The "church " is simply a pretty building where we go all dressed up to meet and greet our neighbors .  What we have to remember is that we are the Church not the building.  We are the living stones that St. Peter spoke about.  Our normal everyday  lives have been  stripped away by a devil named COVID19. In his wake he has left anxiety, fear, and depression.  What I want you to remember is that Jesus is alive.  He is walking in each home and is sending his army of angels to minister to those that believe.  We just have to open our hearts and except the gift that he gave us.  We are not alone.  In our  forced seculsion we can shut out the world and move into a dark area of depression or we can reach out by phone and social media and share the glorious story of the ressurection.  We have church on TV and on the internet we can sing, raise our arms and praise God.  We now have time to open our Bibles and delve into the word of God. We are being emptied out physically, emotionally,  and financially  and when we are emptied out.  the Holy Spirit can fill up the void that is left if we allow Him in.    Tonight on the eve of the empty tomb I will pray that each of you will hunger for the word and will seek the Son.  God Bless you all. 

1Peter 2  vs 1-5  Therefore laying aside all malice, all deceit, hypocrisy, envy and all evil speaking as newborn babes, desire the pure milk of the word, that you may grow thereby, if indeed you have tasted that the Lord is gracious. Coming to Him as to a living stone, rejected indeed by men, but chosen by God and precious, you also, as living stones, are being built up a spiritual house, a holdy priesthood, to offer up spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ


Thursday, April 2, 2020

COVID 19 , Partial Retirement and Hope

Not everyone is aware but I resigned my ED position last Saturday at the insistance of my NP, MD and family.  They were all concerned about my age, BMI, and heart history of PVCs among other issues.  I turned in my notice last Saturday after a week of sleepless nights and worry about myself, my co-workers and my community.  I have been at St. Martin Hospital  for over 20 years and in many ways  my hospital co-workers are like extended family. I will miss the people in the community.  Often I would take care of new moms that I had cared for when they were babies.  I have mourned the deaths of patients that I have come to know so well and been fortunately blessed to celebrate  happy times as well.   COVID 19 has overtaken this country and we are in fear.  I have talked to so many nurses from all over who have expressed concern that they could catch this and die.  Some have questioned whether or not they should quit.  I have no answers I just know that the fear IS rampid and its toll on health care workers and ancillary staff is causing crippling anxiety and depression for many.  The shortage of supplies in many areas is a major concern and causing staff to reuse PPEs especially masks when they should be thrown away.  The jury is out on mask protection. Some say that to only mask those with symptoms, others feel that all ED staff and patients  should be masked for everyones protection against possible exposure.  I dont't have any answers I just know that you can find pros and cons everywhere you look.  If masking makes you feel safer then by all means wear your mask.  My Texsas friend told me she is prepared to fashion garbage bags if necessary to protect her clothing.  As a heath care professional I feel we should do what ever it is that makes us feel safe to decrease the anxiety so prevalent, so I told my friend to go for it but PLEASE send me a picture!

My first day off work was last Sunday when during the night I had a small fever and came to work when it was down.  I got to work and took my mandatory pre-work temp and it was still at 99.5.  I didn't feel great but keep in mind the previous comment about anxiety which I was manifesting.  The staff sent me home.  I cried.  I knew that I was gone forever from my job.  My age and phyicality had finally caught up with me.  I saw my NP that Monday and was tested.  She basically told me that regardless of the outcome that I was out of that enviorment and she sent my excuse by  email because she did not want me to go back into the hospital.  I needed a few supplies to tide me over untill Easter so I went home to prepare for my shopping trip.  Those that know me would NEVER accuse me of being a germaphobe.  I planned this trip like I was going into battle.  I had my N95, gloves and spray bottle of bleach solution.  I went to the store got out put my mask and gloves on.  I sprayed a paper towel with bleach got my basket and wiped it down.  I selected the few things that I needed and checked out .  I went to my car.. still with the same gloves.  i opened the trunk got my bleach bottle and sprayed my gloves I took everything out  including my People magazine and  sprayed everthing and placed in my car.  I shut the hatch then sprayed the outside of the lock area, sprayed the handle of my car, took the old gloves off and put new ones on.  I then wiped down my seat and steering wheel.  I sprayed the tops and bottoms of my shoes.    When I got home I put everything away and then sprayed the counters off.  I was exhausted  and when I sat down reviewed my trip and obsessed that I was not careful enough.  I communicated my crazy behavior with a friend and she basically said "hold my beer" and told me what she did to feel safe.  I'm not so bad!!! Just a month ago had she told me her routine I would have called her crazy.   Any package that is delivered is brought inside my fence, sprayed with bleach on all sides and left to dry before being brought into my home.  My daughter has me quarantined till Easter then I can go back to caring for the kids.  They are safe.  They see no one, go no where and I can safely watch them and go back to homeschooling.  I am not so good at that and have a new respect for ALL teachers..

I feel adrift like I am at sea and cannot find my footing.  I have always been a nurse.  44 years and counting in a field that has brought me so much agony and joy. I now have to figure out exactly who I really am without the protection of my scrubs.  Financially I have to work but for the next few months will be a MImi, a teacher, a mom, and a friend.  I will de-clutter my house again and enjoy my solitude.  I am spending most days in my jammies without make up and wigs.  My hair is down to my shoulders and gets pinned up.  I talk to my dogs and spend time on the phone.  I watched Tiger King at the insistance of  my niece Carrie White.  As an aside,  I believe he is inocent albeit an excentric, loony toon who has no business owning a rat let alone  tigers.  Oh before I forget  the Tiger Queen( my name for that crazy woman),Carol Baskin killed her husband AND lest we forget, Jeffery Epstein did NOT kill himself.

Our country under Trump has enjoyed unprecedented unemployment with Hispanic and African American unemployement the lowest ever recorded, Increased manufacturing jobs,  made America first not just a slogan but a realized dream for so many of us.  I personally saw more money in my check each pay day.  I could go on and on and on.  Then COVID 19 came along.  I listen with sadness all the things he has supposedly done wrong in handling this epidemic.  There could have been things done differently but  we are the cause of the spread of this virus.  We have been told to stay home and avoid social interactions and oh so many have chosen not to obey that directive and the virus has spread  Hindsight is always so good. The idiot mayor of New Orleans LaToya Cantrell(D) said she would have canceled Mardi Gras if the President told her too do so..  Riiiiiiight    Mardi Gras was weeks before  WHO declaired CV-19 a pandemic.  I would bet my right arm that had Trump suggested just that, she would have ignored it and went ahead with the celebrations. She is clueless or never watched TV and could have come to the conclusion that having a million plus   people decend on her town from all over the world might not be a good idea. We now must deal with the hand we have been dealt.  We must come together and forge ahead  and not lose hope.  We have each other... at a distance .... but we have each other.

My parting thought is  about those patients in the hospital with CV-19 and in the intensive care units on vents.  I have been bothered by the isolation.   All hospitals that I am aware of have stopped all visitation.  So your relatives are alone at what is probably the worst time of their life. Some are dying alone with only their overworked nurse and doctor in attendance.  Knowing their diagnosis upon entering the unit I am sure that they are feeling hopeless.  Why can't we use our handy dandy telecom machines to take from room to room so that families can at least talk to and see their loved ones even if they cannot talk back.  I would want to hear my son and daughter's voice and that of my precious grandchildren I would be filled with joy to see their faces.  I would not feel so alone.  I would take their words of hope and wishes for recovery and  just maybe would marshal the extra nebulous  "something"  that  I would need to survive.  And if the worst happenes my family would know that they were able to say their  goodbyes.

Lord I come to you in prayer that you will protect all of our front line people and that you will bless each person that has reached inside of themselves to help better the suffering of another.  I pray that you will guide and direct our scientists, all health care workers,  and first responders. I ask for abundant blessings for those who are delivering our supplies and food.  I pray for our  country and for ALL affected by this virus around the world. I pray that you will look in favor at the people who are meeting needs of their friends and neighbors.  I pray for those hospitalized   that you will pour your spirit down upon them so that they know that they are not alone and that their fear will be eased.   I pray in Jesus name.
Amen

... if my people, who have been called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways, then  I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin, and I will heal their land
 2 Chronicles 7:14